How about we discuss about how you define marriage? Marriage for me, is just a promise for be with her forever. But, a promise might not be willingly, it might be forced to make a promise, and when you are fed up with it, you can just simply break it, just like breaking a glass. Pieces shattered everywhere.
For me, I don't really believe in being together forever, because I hadn't experience once till now. It's like, every time you put alot of effort in it, and in the end, it just popped and vanished. But, I do believe in, appreciate the moment with her, which might be the past, present, or future. I don't care how long will we be together, I just care how much we appreciate each other when there's chance. Sorry to say that, those who believe in eternity, is pure fool or naive, or trying to go against reality. Not that eternity doesn't exist, but it's just a mere amount.
What I saw, is happiness linked with everyone during the process. These happiness might not last long, but it does exist, maybe for the period of time. That's why, I'm wanting to be a wedding photographer, to capture the sweetest moment, and perhaps, be a memory of them to recall that they both are willing to be together in the past.
Kids isn't that annoying actually, I do love kids. I'm moved by the naive, the pure element that lies within the kids. But, the kids, portrait their parents. Exactly. My niece was truely adorable, naive, and can laugh for anything. But somehow, she inherits the negative of her parents, being petty, mood swing easily, rude, as portrait in her mom.
She and her mother were somehow being spoilt by my dad. What they want, they must get. They wouldn't consider any external or internal factors, such as financial, family, or so on. I can be like them, but somehow I inherited the kindness of my mom, always try to be understanding. I wanted to spend all my dad's money, I wanted to just ask for money when I finish spending it, but somehow, somewhere within my heart, I heard a voice asking me not to do so.
I'm bit curious, what has turns me to a different character after primary school. What factors do contribute to my changes? For sure, if I didn't take part in buddhist activities, I wouldn't be at this very world. That's the reason, I still stay at there.
Somehow, I feel like sharing this, because, I felt quite alone now.
女生应该体谅男人的13件事
1：不要要求他太多，不要嫌他陪你的时间不够，如果你想将来与他执手偕老，就不要在乎现在的朝朝暮暮。细水长流是的爱情才是最真的。
Don't request, or whine too much. If you wanted to be with him till old, just enjoy the time when being with him.
2：不要嫌他唠叨，因为一个男生对一个女生唠叨，那说明他真得很在乎你，当他忙的时候尽量不去打扰他。
Don't complain that he nagged you, because for a guy, if he does nag you, it means he really cares about you. Try not to disturb him when he's busy.
3：当他在msn上赶你下线的时候，要立即下线，因为他有可能在等着你的头像暗了证明你睡了的时候才下线睡觉。不要让他担心。
When he somehow force you to offline while chatting on MSN, this indicates that he is waiting for you to fall asleep, he only sleep, because he worries.
4：只对他一个男生说晚安（wan an），以为“晚安”的含义是：wo ai ni ai ni(我爱你，爱你)，对其他的男生说“好梦”或者其他的话。如果你喜欢他,就告诉他吧，即使他拒绝，并不丢面子，因为在他的心里，会因为你的真情而非常非常感激你。
Try to create something out of the typical words, for example replacing goodnight with "NaiNai", which is only dedicated to him. If you do like him, just tell him. If he neglect you, it's not an embarrassing matter, because he deeply appreciate you for your true heart.
5：如果他喜欢你，要明确告诉他你的感情，喜欢就是喜欢，不喜欢就是不喜欢。千万不要怕伤害他而犹豫不决地。不要让他脆弱地等待到最后受到抛弃，因为男孩子的心一旦碎了很难很难再好起。
If he likes you, you must told him exactly what are you thinking, what's your feeling, straight to the point. Fear not to hurt him by telling the truth, because if you let a guy ( fragile) to wait till the end and being disposed, his heart will shatter and it's hard to reassemble.
6：男孩子也有自己的脾气，只是因为爱你而压抑，不要总是任性,有时他们的决定也很有道理。
Boys do have their own tempers, but somehow they suppress it due to love. Don't always be a willfulness person, because sometimes they do mind it.
7：男孩子莫名地向你发脾气，那是因为他爱你，把你当成最亲的。最贴心的,最有安全感的人，千万不要和他发脾气，静静地等着,等他消气后后悔地去抱你。
Boys somehow will get angry with you, not because he doesn't love you anymore, it's because he had take you as part of his life. Never argue with him, but just wait quietly, and give him a hug after calming down.
8：他为你准备的东西，即使再难看，再廉价，也要去珍惜。因为那里面融汇着他整晚的思绪。
No matter how ugly or cheap (price) the things he made for you, he took a full night to think of it.
9：相信他许愿给你多么多么美好的生活，要给他鼓励，因为你的鼓励会使他创造出奇迹。
A simple motivating word from you, will bring miracle to him.
10：不要总是和他联系，问他去哪里，告诉他注意安全，你会等着他就可以。
Don't contact him all the time, as in he needed some privacy. Waiting him will just do.
11：不要总说"我爱你"，他会半真半笑着说烦你，但不要不说，因为有时候，他们比女孩子更需要这句。
Don't say " I love you" too often, or not at all, because sometimes, it does means a lot to him.
12：他为你掉眼泪了，那么他是真的非常非常地爱你！珍惜他的每一颗眼泪，不要道歉，不要安慰，握着他的手，默默地为他擦去泪滴。
If he cries for you, appreciate it, as in he loves you a lot. You doesn't need to be sorry, or to comfort him, just hold his hand, or embrace him, while wiping his tears.
13：要信任他，他爱你，就什么都不会骗你！即使真的有欺骗，也是为你们的爱情能够永远不离不弃！
Do believe that when he loves you, he wouldn't lie to you. If he lies, he did for reason
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